Things I wish I knew sooner…

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The other day I was thinking about time travel and if I could go back in time and hand myself a “cheat-sheet” on things I wish I knew sooner. That would be pretty handy don’t you think. This is what I would tell myself:

1. Invest in Apple in 2007!
- Sell shares in 2012.

2. Learn and memorize the 10 warning signs of sociopaths.
- And if you meet one…. Run!

3. If a guy makes an effort to keep in touch/hang out with you, he’s into you.
- Nip it in the bud, or take advantage.

4. Take an Omega 3 supplement.
- And multi-vitamin – daily

5. Go to a nutritionist and learn what you should be eating.
- Pay attention to what your body doesn’t like.

6. Never just take “No” for an answer.
- People will only push you around if you allow them to.

7. Being in a relationship does not mean you should lose yourself.
- A couple does not replace the individual

8. Pay attention, to everything and everyone you meet.
- Be present

9. Choose your close friends carefully, if you choose well they will be with you for a long time.
- Don’t try and “save” the irredeemable.

10. You never feel like a “grown up”.
- Till you hang out with kids.

When friendships sink.

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So it’s been 4 months since the 4th musketeer have left our ranks. There are some days that I surprise myself when I don’t even miss her and other days when I think ‘oh she would’ve loved this’. We won’t talk about the snarky comments she’s been leaving on fb. Ironic since she accused us of this once.

My friendships are sacred to me and I will sail to the ends of the earth for them. But when they start pulling you under and you are desperate to stay afloat, things could get ugly. You have to cut the cord, no matter how much you try and save you both.

Now another friend of mine is starting to take on some water. It’s been weeks since I’ve seen her and she declined two recent dinner requests. She has always been a loner, but made the effort to spend time with me at a moment’s notice.

I don’t want to lose another friend, but when someone don’t want your help that is difficult too. Is it too early to start worrying? Maybe, but rather early than late. I just hope she knows that she can talk to us about whatever is bothering her. Unlike snarky who told many white lies to cover her tracks.

Perhaps I should drop in with a bottle of red, just in case…

Woodkid – I love you

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How romantic is this song? When I first heard it I thought it was just mumbling but after I looked up the lyrics it blew me away. Weird video though…

Where the light shivers offshore
Through the tides of oceans
We are shining in the rising sun

As we are floating in the blue
I am softly watching you
Oh boy your eyes betray what burns inside you

Whatever I feel for you
You only seem to care about you
Is there any chance you could see me too?
Cause I love you
Is there anything I could do
Just to get some attention from you?
In the waves I’ve lost every trace of you
Where are you?

After all I drifted ashore
Through the streams of oceans
Whispers wasted in the sand

As we were dancing in the blue
I was synchronized with you
But now the sound of love is out of tune

Whatever I feel for you
You only seem to care about you
Is there any chance you could see me too?
Cause I love you
Is there anything I could do
Just to get some attention from you?
In the waves I’ve lost every trace of you
Where are you?

Whatever I feel for you
You only seem to care about you
Is there any chance you could see me too?
Cause I love you
Is there anything I could do
Just to get some attention from you?
In the waves I’ve lost every trace of you
Where are you?

Healthy Chocolate Cake!

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Some days, only cake will improve your day.  I adore a good piece of chocolate cake.  I like it dense, chunky and moist with icing you lick off your fingers with glee.

Recently I was intrigued by a recipe I found that used grated Zucchini or Baby Marrow in the cake.   I work on a farm where we receive TONS of baby marrows every day.  I HAD to try it.

My first cake got a bit burnt, but it was decadent non-the-less.  Inspired I tried again, this time with spectacular results.

I love giving the people at work a piece of cake, watch them enjoy it and then ask with a secretive smile:  ”Could you taste the secret ingredients?”  They pause, mid-lick of the finger and suspiciously ask:  ”What secret ingredients?”

With a Cheshire-cat smile I happily inform them they just gorged themselves on Zucchini and Avocado.  Wide-eyed they ask me:  ”Really?  No!”

chocolate cake

Chocolate Zucchini Cake with Avocado Icing

240 grams (2 cups) all-purpose flour
- 60 grams (1/2 cup) unsweetened cocoa powder
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon fine sea salt
- 180 grams (1 scant cup) light brown sugar (I use unrefined cane sugar)
- 115 grams (1/2 cup) unsalted butter, at room temperature, or 1/2 cup virgin olive oil
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 1 teaspoon instant coffee granules or 2 tablespoons strong cooled coffee — this is just to deepen the chocolate flavor, you won’t taste it in the finished product
- 3 large eggs
- 350 grams (2 cups) unpeeled grated zucchini, from about 1 1/2 medium zucchini
- 160 grams (1 cup) good-quality bittersweet chocolate chips, or chopped chocolate

Serves 12.

Preheat the oven to 180°C (350°F). Grease a 25-cm (10-inch) round springform pan or a 22-cm (8 1/2-inch) square pan.

In a medium mixing bowl, whisk together the flour, cocoa powder, baking soda, baking powder, and salt. In the bowl of a mixer (or by hand in a large mixing bowl), beat the sugar and butter until fluffy. Add the vanilla, coffee, and eggs, mixing well between each addition.

In a large mixing bowl, combine the zucchini, chocolate chips, and about a third of the flour mixture, making sure the zucchini strands are well coated and not clumping too much.

Add the rest of the flour mixture into the egg batter. Mix until just combined; the batter will be thick.

Fold the zucchini mixture into the batter, and blend with a spatula without over-mixing.  Pour into the prepared cake pan, and level the surface.

Bake for 40 to 50 minutes, until a knife inserted in the center comes out clean. Transfer onto a rack to cool for 10 minutes, run a knife around the pan to loosen, and unclasp the sides of the pan. Serve slightly warm or at room temperature.

This recipe is from:  http://chocolateandzucchini.com/archives/2004/04/chocolate_zucchini_cake.php

The baby marrow in the cake keeps it nice and moist and the small amount of rising agents keeps it dense.

For the Avocado Icing

2 Perfectly Ripe Avocados

2 cups icing sugar

3/4 cup good quality cacao

a sprinkling of lemon juice

1/2 teaspoon vanilla essence

Remove the skin and pit of the avos.  Sprinkle with lemon juice and mash them up until nice and smooth.

Mix the icing sugar and cacao together, use a sift if clumpy.  Add spoonfuls of the avo mixture into the icing until a nice thick consistency is reached.   Stir in the vanilla essence and you will notice the icing is puffy and glossy.  Chill for an hour if necessary before topping the cake with a generous layer of icing.

ENJOY your healthy chocolate cake.  Or feed it to others and enjoy the look of wonder on their faces.

Storm Worthy Men!

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Since I had a great weekend and will probably be MIA until the end of next week with it being Easter weekend and all, today deserve a super-duper-bumper edition!   May I introduce you to my crush of the moment?  Yesterday I had a marathon session of Covert Affairs and I was just reminded again of how much I have LOOOOOVVVVEEEDDD this gorgeous man.  He first appeared on my radar in Ugly Betty as the handsome accountant and soon made girls swoon over more than just his adorable face.  Have you SEEN this man’s SICK body?  *fans myself while swooning*

Christopher David Gorham

Age:  38 (August 14, 1974)

Famous for:  Ugly Betty, Jake 2.0, Covert Affairs, Medical Investigation, Out of Practice.

Love him for:  Those abs!  That smile!   Those eyelashes!

Hate him for:  Marrying his co-star – cliche!

Christopher Gorham Collage

Did you know he is trained in martial arts as well as ballroom dancing?

Here’s the bonus!

When I like a TV show theme-song I often try and get the whole song.  They are often very good without only being 20 seconds long.  I tried my best to find the theme-song of Covert Affairs over the weekend but couldn’t find it.  As it turns out it is from a band formerly known as Apple Trees & Tangerines, now The Power.

Here is the lyrics:

Can you save me – The Power

When I collapse, will you forget?
When I’m dead and gone, will you regret?
All of the constant, mocking, bitter slang
And pokes when you were so upset
When you grabbed your keys, said you were gone
Helped myself out, passed the gun
And bombed my friends and family I did well
It’s just my choices
They were wrong
They were wrong,
They were wrong,
They were wrong,
They were wrong, wrong, wrong,
They were wrong.

[Chorus:]
Can you save me?
From this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to cause you worry
Don’t you blame me
For this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to show you my mistakes

When “us” collapse, break bonds, when you forget
All the months we spent on loneliness
Long nights, short days with conversation
That’s nothing more than arguments
I’d fix this if I could
I’d change this… you know I would
It’s been a long time coming
A long time baby
I’d say that you misunderstood

[Chorus:]
Can you save me?
From this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to cause you worry
Don’t you blame me
For this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to show you my mistakes

[Bridge]
I don’t know, I don’t know
I don’t know where I am heading
All I can tell is that you’re gone!
All I know,
All I know; I’ve become a disappointment
Sorry if I’m always wrong!

All your perspectives stand
I’m not the same creature that I was back then
A slight touch hitting on its mass
I’m never coming back
Never going back there again

[Chorus:]
Can you save me?
From this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to cause you worry
Don’t you blame me
For this nothing I’ve become
It’s just something that I’ve done
Never meant to show you my mistakes.

Opening Theme:

Season 4 Trailer:

I can’t wait for the new season, can you?

Prayer of Saint Francis

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Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen